You discover your wonderful one-year-old child is, because of a mix-up at the hospital, not yours. Would you want to exchange the child to try to correct the mistake?
I would want my bio child back too... but when I think of Max and there being any chance of him not being mine, I cringe at the thought of separating him from me and what it would do to both of us... I guess he wouldn't remember anything in the future, but thinking about how he might cry for me in the moment? That would just kill me! Nevertheless, my bio baby needs his real mama!
I was so obsess with this when Dallin was born. I had a nightmare about it...Wade had to promise me he will follow our newborn everywhere when he was not with me. I agree - I would want my own child back, because he is mine, my blood my son, uhmmmm...but I could not let Dallin go, I could never do that. Maybe fight to keep both...uhmmm but what about the other mother? ahhhh! So glad this is not my case!
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ha! at my new job, we ask families this question all the time. my answer is, i want my genetic child back.
I would want my bio child back too... but when I think of Max and there being any chance of him not being mine, I cringe at the thought of separating him from me and what it would do to both of us... I guess he wouldn't remember anything in the future, but thinking about how he might cry for me in the moment? That would just kill me! Nevertheless, my bio baby needs his real mama!
I was so obsess with this when Dallin was born. I had a nightmare about it...Wade had to promise me he will follow our newborn everywhere when he was not with me.
I agree - I would want my own child back, because he is mine, my blood my son, uhmmmm...but I could not let Dallin go, I could never do that. Maybe fight to keep both...uhmmm but what about the other mother? ahhhh!
So glad this is not my case!
yes...i think if the kid were older that would be harder.
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