Okay, so I stole this from Kathy's blog, but I don't think she'll mind... I just wanted to know what YOU guys thought...
While on a trip to another city your spouse (or lover) meets and spends the night with an exciting stranger. Given that they will never meet again, and that you will not otherwise know of the incident, would you want your partner to tell you about it? If roles were reversed, would you reveal what you had done?
5 comments:
Hell no. I don't want to know and to tell would be a totally selfish thing to do because really... admitting it is only a relief for the guilty party and I think it only inflicts more pain on the innocent one.
Well, fro, if the marriage is already pretty rocky, then I'd wanna know I guess just because I wouldn't want to keep an already rocky marriage that had indiscretion on top of it... and vice versa.
This is a depressing question! I think I would want to know...but I always want to know :) I agree with you Jessica, in that if there is an affair happening then the marriage probably has deeper issues that need addressing.
I don't remember if I ever answered this. Knowing would end our marriage. Period. I wouldn't want to know and I sure as hell would not tell.
ps I couldn't remember who had inquired if my babies were Hapa babies...it must have been you. It's funny because the Hawaiian pronunciation of her name is totally how you pronounced it. But we say it like Leina. I like that better...and she may as well be your daughter since you seem to have so much in common. ;)
yes and yes and then I'd leave the fool.
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